Preparing For Your Reading
The best way to experience a session is to come with an open mind and heart. Even though you generally wish to connect with specific individuals, please know that I have little control over who may come through. Any and all family and friends can come through to relay messages, share memories, and let you know they are still very much a part of your life.
If someone you had hoped to hear from doesn't come through, please don't worry that they aren't there or that they don't love you. That's not at all the case. There can be different reasons why a Spirit would choose not to come through. Most often it may be because Spirit doesn't want to overwhelm you or intensify your feelings of grief. But sometimes, it may be that your relative with the strongest personality just cut in line!
To begin a session, I will quietly ask your loved ones to come forth. There is a blending of energies that take place when this connection is made. The reading usually begins with me identifying who the Spirit is, maybe their relationship to you, what they looked like, where they lived, and other forms of information to help you determine who we are speaking with. Often, Spirit will show me things going on in your life so that you know they are still very much a part of your experience. The end of our communication will end with a message delivered to you with their love.
As the reading is being done, I ask that you validate the information I am receiving with a "yes, that makes sense", or a "no, I don't understand that." It's very important that you don't make the evidence I give you "fit". I also always tell people not to "feed the medium" with information about your loved ones. It's my job to provide evidence to you.
Another important thing to know is that Spirit can only work within the frame of reference I have on any given topic. I know a great deal about many things, but you may be disappointed when I'm not able to produce the exact validation you are looking for. A good example of this was a client whose husband had died and before he passed they created a code word so that each would know that the other was truly present. Unfortunately, the word they chose was Rutabaga. Even after many other great validations, the wife was not convinced of her husband's presence because I was unable to identify the vegetable in my mind!
It's also good to know that your loved ones may tell you to watch your blood pressure or maybe check on grandma to be sure she's taking her medication, but they will never come through with a specific diagnosis or directions regarding your health. They have been known however, to come through with the location of lost items like jewelry and paperwork!
Lastly, if within the first 10 minutes I don't feel a connection or you are unable to validate the connection I have, I will end the session, refund your money, and gladly send you with a referral for another Medium . I believe that just like there are often certain doctors we feel most comfortable seeing, Spirit people are selective when choosing the Medium who can best relay their messages.
If someone you had hoped to hear from doesn't come through, please don't worry that they aren't there or that they don't love you. That's not at all the case. There can be different reasons why a Spirit would choose not to come through. Most often it may be because Spirit doesn't want to overwhelm you or intensify your feelings of grief. But sometimes, it may be that your relative with the strongest personality just cut in line!
To begin a session, I will quietly ask your loved ones to come forth. There is a blending of energies that take place when this connection is made. The reading usually begins with me identifying who the Spirit is, maybe their relationship to you, what they looked like, where they lived, and other forms of information to help you determine who we are speaking with. Often, Spirit will show me things going on in your life so that you know they are still very much a part of your experience. The end of our communication will end with a message delivered to you with their love.
As the reading is being done, I ask that you validate the information I am receiving with a "yes, that makes sense", or a "no, I don't understand that." It's very important that you don't make the evidence I give you "fit". I also always tell people not to "feed the medium" with information about your loved ones. It's my job to provide evidence to you.
Another important thing to know is that Spirit can only work within the frame of reference I have on any given topic. I know a great deal about many things, but you may be disappointed when I'm not able to produce the exact validation you are looking for. A good example of this was a client whose husband had died and before he passed they created a code word so that each would know that the other was truly present. Unfortunately, the word they chose was Rutabaga. Even after many other great validations, the wife was not convinced of her husband's presence because I was unable to identify the vegetable in my mind!
It's also good to know that your loved ones may tell you to watch your blood pressure or maybe check on grandma to be sure she's taking her medication, but they will never come through with a specific diagnosis or directions regarding your health. They have been known however, to come through with the location of lost items like jewelry and paperwork!
Lastly, if within the first 10 minutes I don't feel a connection or you are unable to validate the connection I have, I will end the session, refund your money, and gladly send you with a referral for another Medium . I believe that just like there are often certain doctors we feel most comfortable seeing, Spirit people are selective when choosing the Medium who can best relay their messages.